Marriage

"Husbands, in the same way be considerate as you live with your wives, and treat them with respect as the weaker partner and as heirs with you of the gracious gift of life, so that nothing will hinder your prayers" ~ 1 Peter 3:7

This is one of those verses that could make some people who are looking for something to complain about very upset. How could Peter give such a generalization about wives in marriages and claim they are "the weaker partner"? When you factor in their ability to give birth, manage homes, work with their hands, and deal with being mistreated, most of us could argue they are the stronger partner. But there is one specific way in which we cannot argue that, and it's what Peter has in mind here - physicality. While some women may be physically stronger than some men, those are exceptions, because Peter recognizes that God created men to be the physically stronger of the two genders. The question is, why? It's not for dominance, but for protection, provision, and purpose. Husbands are commanded to be the leaders, defenders, and directors of their wives and households, and to do it all with love and respect. In the verses that precede this one, wives are commanded to submit to their husbands, but also set an example of godliness and gentleness for them. It's clear that God has created men and women uniquely to serve one another in marriage, to team together as a godly example for their household and the world, and to demonstrate the relationship Christ has with His Church. This week at Friendship, we'll look deeper at the foundation of "Marriage". We'll discuss why God created this institution, His intentions for it, and how we are blessed if we walk in obedience concerning His commands regarding our spouses. If you are married, were married, hope one day to be married, or have family members who are married, this sermon will be a blessing to you!